Dating app usage hit record highs in 2024, but even AI isn’t making daters happier

Dating apps achieved unprecedented growth and engagement in 2024, with a surprising surge in older users and the emergence of AI-powered dating tools, yet user frustration remains high amid ongoing challenges with modern digital dating.

Demographic shifts and record numbers: The dating app landscape saw unexpected growth among baby boomers (ages 59-72), with platforms like Feeld experiencing a 340% increase in users over 60.

• Tinder reached a milestone of 50 million users worldwide
• Hinge achieved record global downloads throughout the year
• Bumble’s paid subscriber base grew 10% to exceed 3 million users
• Grindr users exchanged 130 billion messages
• Sniffies reported a 26% increase in straight single users

Evolving relationship dynamics: Modern dating patterns showed significant shifts away from traditional structures and approaches to finding partners.

• Polyamory and non-traditional relationship formats gained increased acceptance and visibility
• TikTok emerged as a prominent platform for dating advice and relationship guidance
• Users reported growing confusion over interpreting digital signals and communication, dubbed the “assumptions epidemic”

Technology integration: A new wave of dating platforms incorporated artificial intelligence to address common user pain points.

• Volar deployed chatbots to handle initial messaging with potential matches
• Apps like Rizz, Iris, and Elate utilized AI to help users make better first impressions
• EVA AI and Luna positioned themselves as AI companion services

User experience challenges: Despite technological advances, fundamental issues continue to plague dating app users.

• App fatigue has become increasingly prevalent among regular users
• A profiled power user named JB, who went on 200 dates following a breakup, reported significant burnout
• Users consistently report issues with dishonesty and toxic behavior from matches
• Many users express that modern dating feels “broken” despite the array of available tools

Market paradox: As dating apps reach historic usage levels and technical sophistication, user satisfaction remains stubbornly low, raising questions about whether digital platforms can effectively facilitate meaningful connections in their current form.